There is one thing that Fidel Castro, Wilt Chamberlain, Warren Beatty, Jack Nicholson and Hugh Hefner all had in common... they are all womanizers and real life Casanovas!
This isn't the first time I blog about this topic (see my previous post One-Woman-Men... An Urban Legend???) and here I am once again incensed by this breed of camouflaged promiscuous heterosexual men who seem to be multiplying in numbers by the day as they feed off the vulnerability of once self-respecting women!
We know they exist, we know how they operate, and we KNOW that we SHOULD steer clear of them... yet many of us have the disposition to keep falling victim to their tactics and ways....
Its simple... you see ladies; a womanizer is not your average man who simply can't keep it in his pants! A womanizer is a very smart, intellectual and highly deceptive man who can't keep it in his pants!
And why we fail to safeguard ourselves from them?... Well that is a combination of the Triangular Theory of Love and the Labor Theories of Value.
The former explains our tendency as women to attract womanizers by developing one of two things;
- What the Triangular Theory of Love refers to as 'infatuated love' which is based solely on passion driven by limerence and sexual attraction
- What the Triangular Theory of Love refers to as 'romantic love' which is based on a combination of passion and longing for intimacy
The latter theories - Labor Theories of Value or LTV - are heterodox economic theories of value which womanizers use as a base on which they formulate all of their tactics. LTV argues that the value of a commodity is related to the labor needed to produce or obtain that commodity. In other words; womanizing tactics are a calculated approach by womanizers based on the amount of effort (labor) that he will have to put in in order to get (obtain) his D to the W (commodity)!
D to the W / (effort x number of options) = potential to womanize
However, it is important to note that in order for womanizers to succeed, evolve and grow among us they will need BOTH the Triangular Theory of Love AND the Labor Theories of Value to be in their favor - i.e. if the woman is not desperate or if she has standards and therefore a high cost then she will simply be far too high risk of an investment to a womanizer in which case he will halt all operations as soon as he realizes that his womanizing tactics will fail to bear any fruit!... and that, my ladies, is the key to stone walling womanizers.
It has nothing to do with the fact that they're "good" at womanizing and deceiving us, but everything to do with whether we are in a state of contempt or content where the former is the silver plate on which woman are served to womanizers!